• 26 Nov 2008 /  Jeff, living

    Tomorrow is Thanksgiving here in the U.S. and despite all the bad financial news this year, I have a lot for which to be thankful. I don’t want to get into the habit of writing in list form but this post sort of lends itself to that format, so here goes (in no particular order).

    1. I’m thankful that I have a wonderful, supportive wife who probably sees more in me than is actually there and is willing to put up with such a grump.
    2. I’m thankful that my two beautiful daughters are growing up happy, healthy, and are becoming thoughtful, good-hearted people.
    3. I’m thankful that Barack Obama is our president-elect and that George W. Bush will no longer be the face that the world attaches to this country. Hope is good.
    4. I’m thankful that in an economy as weak as the current one, both my wife and I have good jobs that are unlikely to go away.
    5. I’m thankful that I have a job that makes me feel like I’m doing something useful and giving something to our community.
    6. I’m thankful that I have a lot of family that I not only love, but that I like, as well.
    7. I’m thankful that so much of my family lives nearby, and that I can see them on a fairly regular basis.
    8. I’m thankful that there are so many interesting, well-written books available, and that I’m able to take the time to read some of them. On a related note, I’m thankful that I don’t have teachers and professors telling me what I should or have to read.
    9. I’m thankful I have friends that I can go without seeing or talking to for months, or even years, and we can pick up like we saw one another yesterday.
    10. I’m thankful I have a nice home in a good, quiet neighborhood with neighbors I know and like.
    11. I’m thankful that my dog has stopped barking at the leafless trees outside, which really seemed to have been freaking him out.

    This is, by no means, an exhaustive list, but it’s a lot of the highlights. Enjoy the holiday.

  • 09 Nov 2008 /  autobiography, living, travel

    Okay, so it’s been a long time since I’ve posted. I’ve been spending a lot of time on my edminster.org site, working on my genealogical material. I’ve also just been really busy with my family, which is almost always preferable to blogging. We took a trip on the kids’ Autumn break to Crawford County, Pennsylvania to visit my dad and his wife. The kids always have a great time there because the family farm is a bit cooler than our back yard.

    Ducks taking bread from carp's mouth

    Ducks taking bread from carp

    They also get to feed the carp at Pymatuning. We’ve never been to feed the carp this late in the season so the experience was very different. Normally, when you throw bread to the carp, they pile on top of one another trying to get it. It’s gross and fascinating at the same time. It was cold enough this time that they were extremely sluggish, and ducks were actually getting the bread before the carp could. The fish were so slow that even when someone managed to throw a piece of bread directly into a carp’s mouth, the ducks sometimes picked it out before the carp could close its mouth.

    We also had a really great bonfire on a cold autumn night and roasted marshmallows. This is becoming a tradition with the kids, and the rest of us enjoy it too. There’s not a lot that can compare to a big, toasty fire spitting sparks into a crisp, clean autumn sky, lighting faces with a warm glow, and filling the air with a wonderful wood smell.

    The new experience for the kids was picking apples way up in the trees with a cage-style apple-picker. If you’ve never used one, it’s basically a long handle topped with a small cage with bent wire “fingers” on the top of one side of the cage. You get the cage under the apple and use the fingers to pull the apple off the branch where it falls into the cage. The girls thought it was really cool.

    I thought seeing them get that excited about picking apples was really cool.

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  • 01 Sep 2008 /  living

    These beauties are straight off the tree in our back yard. Extremely sweet. Extremely juicy. We had a peach tree in our yard when I was a kid, but the peaches only got handball-sized, and the deer usually got them before we even had a chance to try them. The deer actually stood on their hind legs to get some of the higher fruit.
    Peaches from our tree
    We also have two apple trees. One has a bunch of apples, but they’re really more suited to applesauce and pies than eating right off the tree. The second apple tree we planted so that we’d eventually have some eating apples (Honeycrisps). It is very young and has it’s first apple this year. Yup - one apple.
    Cooking apples on treeLonely apple

  • 30 Aug 2008 /  photos

    Taken on a recent trip to the Indianapolis Zoo.

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  • 29 Aug 2008 /  autobiography

    I’m neither modest nor introverted, so you’d think this wouldn’t be a terribly difficult exercise, but I find myself wondering what to say about the man at the keyboard.

    I consider myself lucky to be married to a wonderful woman who attempts to keep me young and cheerful, despite my tendency to be an irritable middle-aged man (I’m practicing to be a crotchety old man). Together we’re raising two beautiful daughters with whom we’re trying to share the lessons life has taught us, while they, in turn, are reminding us of a lot of life lessons we’ve forgotten along the way. The girls are frighteningly clever and keep us in a constant state of something between attentiveness and wariness. To put it another way, we take a lot of care not to miss anything, but sometimes, after the fact, we wonder if it would have been best for everyone involved if we had. 

    In any event, as this site develops, you’ll see that my interests are numerous and varied, but this shouldn’t be taken as a sign that I lack focus. (I do lack focus, but I’d prefer you don’t take it that way.) Had I lived in the early sixteenth century, I’d like to believe I would have been considered a “Renaissance man”. Don’t get me wrong - I don’t fancy myself a modern Leonardo da Vinci or anything like that. I’m more like Leonardo’s younger, duller, less talented, and less successful second cousin. I do, however, have plans for a really cool beard when I hit my fifties.

    I do a lot of reading. It’s both relaxing and satisfying for me. These days most of my reading is fiction. I read a lot of fantasy, particularly stuff targeted at teens. It gives me a chance to talk with my older daughter about what she’s reading, and, quite frankly, I enjoy it, because there are a lot of decent authors doing this kind of stuff. Harry Potter, Percy Jackson and the Olympians, the Sisters Grimm, and the Charlie Bone series are staples of the household. I also like mystery/thrillers. A few of the authors I really enjoy are Nelson DeMille, Jeffrey Archer, David Baldacci, and James Patterson. Admittedly, some works by these authors are a bit formulaic, but I love the characters and action.

    The little bit of nonfiction I still read is usually political, historical, or biographical. I got a bit burnt out on nonfiction during grad school. Most of what I was reading was long-winded, obfuscated, pompous, and irrelevant, but I’m slowly picking up the occasional work that appeals to me and am finding that I can once again enjoy “working” at a book. In all fairness, most of the stuff I was reading in grad school was targeted specifically at other specialists in academia, and impressing one another and making the work inaccessible seemed to be the order of the day. There were, of course, exceptions to this rule, but not many.

    In addition to reading, I enjoy taking pictures of the things that fill my life: people, places, and the things around me. I refrain from calling it photography as that would make it seem a much more artistic endeavor than it really is. I’m thankful for digital photography, because while I think I have a pretty decent eye, my hands don’t always seem to cooperate. Digital picture-taking helps me overcome this problem by offering the ability to take several pictures to get the one I want.

    My newest time-consumer is genealogy. I set out a couple of years ago to do some basic research on my father’s family before a family reunion and became hooked. Much of my academic training was in American history, so this was a comfortable hobby for me to enter. Currently, I’m working on tracing direct lines for both my own and my wife’s family. Additionally, I’m attempting to digitize all the old family pictures and documents. Hopefully, one or both of my daughters will someday be interested in learning about this stuff. For now, I’m just enjoying the challenge.